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Sagittarius:
The Friend Who Is Always Leaving

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Honest, restless and already halfway out the door. A slightly unfair portrait – which they'll love, because they hate boring.

You know a Sagittarius. Everybody does. It's the friend who says "let's grab one coffee" and three hours later you're both looking at flights to Lisbon. The one who tells you your new boyfriend is "fine, but kind of a lamp." The one who has started four languages, two businesses and a pottery class – and finished, well, the coffee.

Let's be honest: Sagittarius isn't a zodiac sign. It's a travel agency with feelings.

Sagittarius isn't a zodiac sign. It's a travel agency with feelings.

Brutally honest (mostly brutal)

Sagittarians are famous for honesty. They will tell you the truth before you've finished asking the question. Sometimes before you've even thought of asking it. Your haircut, your ex, your business plan – nothing is safe.

Is it honesty? Partly. And partly it's the fastest way to leave a conversation that got too close. Drop the truth bomb, grab your jacket, see you in Bali. Nobody can say they weren't direct.

Freedom, freedom, freedom

Ask a Sagittarius what they need in a relationship and you'll hear one word three times: freedom. Ask them what they're afraid of and they'll laugh and change the subject. (That's the answer, by the way.)

As a Capricorn, I have a calendar for my calendar. A Sagittarius has a passport and a vague idea. I envy them a little. They're the only sign that can make an airport feel like a spiritual retreat.

But here's the thing I see over and over: running is easier than staying. When something starts to hurt – a relationship gets serious, a job gets boring, a feeling gets heavy – the archer just shoots an arrow somewhere far away and gallops after it. New city, new people, new philosophy. Same feeling, waiting quietly in the hand luggage.

So, dear Sagittarius

You don't need to stop traveling. Please don't – the rest of us need your stories. But next time you feel the urge to book a one-way ticket, sit for five minutes and ask yourself: am I going toward something, or away from something?

If it's toward – go. Send postcards.

If it's away – stay one more week. It won't kill you. Probably.

And the rest of us? Love your Sagittarius. Just don't lend them your suitcase. You won't see it again.

Tom Shayan
Tom Shayan
Clairvoyant, healer
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