Signs Someone Put
a Curse on You
Everything goes wrong at once. Money slips away, the relationship falls apart, you sleep badly, and a quiet voice whispers: maybe someone did this to me. Maybe it's a curse. I've worked with people for years as a psychic and healer, and I hear this question a lot. So let me answer it honestly — without scaring you, and without laughing at you either.
Do curses really exist?
Yes. I won't pretend otherwise. The spiritual world is around us as normally as a cat on the street. Energy can be sent, and someone's bad wishes can stick.
But here's the thing most people selling curse removal won't tell you: a curse can't hold on to you by itself. It needs something to attach to — the way a virus needs a place on a cell to get in. That place is almost always an emotion you haven't dealt with.
Everything that's magical is also human. Somewhere inside us, there's an invitation.
Everything that's magical is also human.
The "signs" people look for
Online you'll find long lists: a streak of bad luck, nightmares, feeling drained, things breaking, fights out of nowhere, a heavy feeling in the house.
Let's be honest. Every one of these can happen without any magic at all. A bad year is not a hex. Exhaustion is not a hex. If your body is telling you something, the first question is: have you been to a doctor? Sleep, health and money problems deserve real, practical help first.
What can point to something more is a feeling that doesn't fit your life. A sadness or anger that doesn't seem to be yours. A heaviness that started suddenly, at a specific moment or around a specific person — and stays, even when everything else is fine.
Look at the feeling, not the facts
When people come to me sure they've been cursed, they often bring a list of facts. She said this, he did that, then the car broke down. And I say: stop.
Facts are neutral. Ask yourself a different question: how do I feel? And have I felt this way before?
Very often the "curse" is an old feeling in a new costume — guilt, fear of not being good enough, the sense that you don't deserve good things. When you believe someone's envy can destroy you, it's usually because a part of you already agrees.
How to get rid of it
A big part of my job is taking the magic out of the problem. Because once it's human, you can work with it.
Be careful who you ask
If someone tells you you're cursed and then offers to remove it for a big sum — and then another session, and another — walk away. That's not help. That's a business built on fear.
An honest person will look, tell you what they see and give you tools. Sometimes there really is something attached, and it can often be cleared in a single session. More often the work is yours, and it's lighter than you think. If a pattern has lasted for decades, a good psychologist will help you more than any ritual.
You are not powerless
No curse is stronger than someone who knows themselves. Nobody is powerless. When the emotion underneath heals, whatever was clinging to you has nothing left to hold on to — and it simply goes. That's it.